The Rupal Diaries

The temple flag holds great significance in many religions, including Jainism.  It is not just a decorative item, it is a symbol deeply rooted in tradition, spirituality and respect. General Importance of the Temple Flag Symbol of Devotion and Respect :  Hoisting a flag is an act of devotion, showing respect to our god housed within the temple. Marker of a Sacred Space : From a distance, the flag atop a temple helps people identify it as a sacred space. It acts as a guide for devotees and pilgrims. Spiritual Protection : The flag is believed to protect the temple and the surrounding area from negative energies. Representation of Everlasting Worship : A flag fluttering in the wind signifies that worship is ongoing, even when the temple doors are closed. Cultural Identity and Tradition : The colours, symbols and materials used often reflect the culture, beliefs and heritage of the region and religion. In Jainism ,  the Jain flag is usually  Five...

A beautiful message for life with simple example.   Just as nothing can destroy iron except its own rust, no one can truly destroy a person, except their own mindset. Iron is a strong metal. Yet when it suffers from rust, that rust- its own weakness- slowly eats it away. In the same way, our strength and potential remain intact unless our negative thoughts begin to erode them. Your mindset is like that rust. It’s not external circumstances, but internal patterns of thinking that can break you down.  A negative mindset drags you down  A positive mindset lifts you up.   The quality of your thoughts deeply influences your personality and how you engage with the world. So, stay mindful of your inner environment, the thoughts you feed, the mental habits you nurture and the people and energies you surround yourself with. That’s what ultimately shapes and protects who you are. So now onwards be careful about what you think, focus on purifying your thoughts because,  A ...

     "Small hearts with big dreams”           A tag line for all childrens...                Children truly are God’s gift. Every child is a born creator. Every child is unique. Every child carries a world of wonder within. Every child learns in their own beautiful way. Every child holds unlimited possibilities. Every child blooms when nurtured with love. Their innocence, kindness, flexibility, curiosity and expectations, teaches us something precious. Sometimes knowing less about the world is actually a blessings. They live in their own little universe, dreaming fearlessly and walking confidently towards their goals. Today’s children are firm, focused and determined and there is so much we, as adults, can learn from them. A Child teaches us to love unconditionally. A child reminds us to find joy in the smallest moments. A child teaches us the beauty of pure innocence. A child shows us how to live ...

It’s Okay to Start Small – progress over perfection. We’ve all seen baby steps tiny , unsteady , yet full of determination . Those small steps eventually turn into confident footsteps. Life works the same way.  The journey from baby steps to confident strides carries a beautiful message from God — that growth takes time, effort, and faith. Just as a child learns to walk one small step at a time, we too can achieve success by moving forward patiently. Every hurdle teaches us balance and every step brings us closer to our dreams. No matter how big your dream, event or goal may be, every journey begins with small efforts. Don’t wait for perfection to start, just begin. Each little step brings progress and that progress will ultimately lead you to your destination. Word ' Start'  is the key here.   The journey of every big achiever reminds us that greatness begins with small steps. No one reaches the top overnight, each milestone is built on continuity, patience and progress....

Few years ago, we proudly spoke of engineers, doctors and chartered accountants as the core professionals of our society. But if you ask them, none would have experienced the kind of season of exams that today’s students are going through.  In recent times, entering a professional course has itself become a marathon of examinations. Students have to cross several milestones just to step into their chosen field. This phase is one of the most crucial in both a student’s and a parent’s life. Students need to stay dedicated, focused and calm, while parents must offer unwavering support and create a positive environment.  Looking at the current education system, one realizes that even finding the right fit for a career path has become a milestone in itself.   Before the real exams begin, students face multiple entrance tests that demand both mental strength and emotional balance. The journey usually begins soon after 10th standard. To all the students stepping into this season...

Today a song marked a century and a half. The song’s journey from a poem written in Bengal to a national symbol that inspired millions during India’s freedom struggle. Yes you all guessed it rightly, It's our national song:  "Vande Mataram". 150 years show that the song’s emotions are still alive. Even today, when people sing it, they feel the same pride and connection that freedom fighters once felt. Let's know briefly the origin of the song : “Vande Mataram” was written by Bankim Chandra Chattopadhyay in Sanskrit and Bengali on 7 November 1875 . He was one of India’s greatest writers and is often called the “Sahitya Samrat” ( Emperor of Literature ) of Bengal. He was among the first graduates of the University of Calcutta and also served as a Deputy Magistrate under British rule. The song praises Mother India as a divine mother figure. It was later included in his famous novel Anandamath (1882). It became a source of inspiration during India’s freedom struggle. Free...

See the world with your own eyes.  Paint the picture with your own pencil. Walk your path wearing your own shoes.  When you do this, you’ll realize that most of your worries , perhaps 80% of them begin to fade away. Too often, we look at life through someone else’s lens. We compare our journey, decisions or success with others and in doing so, lose touch with our own unique perspective. But when you choose to see the world through your own eyes, you start understanding what truly matters to you . Wearing someone else’s glasses may distort your vision. Walking in someone else's shoes may cause you discomfort. Everyone’s path, purpose and pace are different. What fits one person perfectly may not suit another and that’s completely fine. Your experiences, your emotions  and your lessons are uniquely yours.  Trust them.  Let them shape your view of the world. The moment you stop comparing and start owning your perspective, life begins to feel lighter, more genu...

 " "When I lost my excuses, I found my result." A beautiful and powerful thought that I came across sometime back. It's a short but very meaningful thought. So sharing with you all. This quote means that success begins where excuses end. Often, when we don’t achieve something, we tend to give reasons lack of time, lack of resources, unfavorable circumstances or fear of failure. These excuses become our comfort zone, protecting us from responsibility but also keeping us away from progress. The moment we stop justifying why we can’t do something and instead take ownership of our actions, we open the door to real growth and achievement. Losing excuses means gaining accountability and accountability brings results. Excuses are the enemy of action.   When we stop making them, we start taking steps forward. Results require responsibility. Only when we accept that “it’s up to me” do we find solutions. Mindset shift:  From  “I can’t because…”  To  “How can I?” ...

India is a land of rich traditions, each rooted in stories from the past. Every celebration holds deep meaning and belief and people observe them with great devotion and faith.  One such special occasion is Tulsi Vivaah, a day that carries spiritual and cultural importance.   Tulsi Vivaah is a special day when people celebrate the marriage of Tulsi (the holy basil plant) and Lord Vishnu. It usually happens in the month of Kartik (around November). Long ago, there was a good and faithful woman named Vrinda. She was married to a demon king named Jalandhar. Jalandhar was a powerful demon king in Hindu mythology. He was born from a spark that came out of Lord Shiva’s third eye when he was very angry. Because of this, Jalandhar had great strength and some divine powers Because of Vrinda’s prayers and purity, Jalandhar became very powerful and no one could defeat him. To help the gods, Lord Vishnu took the form of Jalandhar and broke Vrinda’s trust. When Vrinda came to know the trut...

0The victory of the girls’ team in the ICC Women’s World Cup is not just a win on the field : it’s a powerful message to the world.  It reminds us that qualities can be practiced, developed, and mastered with dedication and consistent effort. Cricket demands a perfect blend of physical strength, mental toughness, teamwork, and strategy. Balancing all these qualities is challenging for anyone , but for women, the challenge is even greater. They carry multiple responsibilities as daughters, mothers, professionals, caregivers — and yet, they rise to perform with excellence and passion. Every achievement by a woman in sports is not just about talent; it’s often a story of struggle and self-belief. Behind every shining trophy, there are countless unseen hours of practice, sacrifices and an unshaken spirit. These champions have shown that determination has no gender .  When a woman decides to chase her dream and puts her heart into it, no barrier can stop her. With the right support...

🎃 Halloween Kitty : Another friends’ gathering… but this one had a spooky twist! Our Halloween kitty turned out to be a total blast.  We decided to have a pot party — each of us bringing one homemade dish . And guess what? The menu turned into a delightful fusion feast — Gujarati met Mexican , Italian shook hands with South Indian . The spread was so wide that just tasting each dish was enough to fill stomachs. Truly, such magic happens only in our kitty! And then began the gossip session — the unspoken highlight of every gathering. Laughter, teasing, stories, secrets — it was all there, wrapped in friendship and fun. Soon after came the photo and video session in our Halloween looks. Everyone looked like ghosts — spooky yet adorable, scary yet so funny! The pictures turned out hilarious, and the memories even more beautiful. Some evenings just stay with you — not because they’re grand, but because they’re filled with laughter, love, and a little madness. This Halloween kitty ...