The Rupal Diaries

100 — a milestone number, that tells a story of success, self-satisfaction, new beginnings, and much more. This is my 100th article in this blog.  I began my journey by writing small articles, never realising when those little efforts quietly added up to my 100th article. As the saying goes, “Many a little makes a miracle,” and this proverb truly reflects my experience. On the occasion of my 100th article, I am preparing another book titled,   “Transform our mindset,  Path to Thoughtful Life”.  It is a collection of my writings on lifestyle, life values and various mindset techniques that can help us ease our path and truly enjoy the journey of life. Reaching this milestone has inspired me to bring a fresh twist to my blogging space. Language is a precious asset that we all possess. Every word is like a jewel , the more we reflect upon it, the more truth it reveals.  Going forward, I would like to explore simple words that we use frequently in our daily lives bu...

Do not get upset with people or situations , both are powerless without your reaction. So true...  Science teaches us that Every ACTION has a REACTION , but we often forget another important truth:  No reaction is also a reaction &   Sometimes, it is the most powerful one. We all encounter people:  who don’t behave the way we expect,  who don’t communicate clearly,  who misunderstand our words.  Similarly, many situations do not unfold in our favour. These moments are common in everyone’s life. But remember this:  People and situations gain power only when you react. Many conflicts, frustrations and misunderstandings begin the moment we respond impulsively.  Instead,  PAUSE. Hold your reaction. That pause becomes your strength . In that moment of stillness, you can see things more clearly, analyse calmly and learn meaningfully. What could have escalated will transform, simply because you chose not to react. Try this the next time yo...

Today’s life is filled with goals—personal, professional, academic, extracurricular, and social. To achieve them with less efforts, we often look for a simple formula that guides us forward.  One powerful element of that formula is understanding the value of a moment. A moment may seem like a tiny slice of time, but it carries immense significance. Once we set a goal, every moment becomes precious. It should not be wasted, because  The right moment can open the door to progress. When you are truly focused on your goal, you naturally recognise the right moment to take risks.  The right moment when it arrives and have the courage to take the risk that moves you closer to your success . This clarity becomes a formula for success.  Many times, we start with a clear goal, but as we move ahead, distractions make us drift away. That’s why it’s essential to stay committed and keep your attention firmly on your destination. Continuously focusing and working towards a goal can...

The temple flag holds great significance in many religions, including Jainism.  It is not just a decorative item, it is a symbol deeply rooted in tradition, spirituality and respect. General Importance of the Temple Flag Symbol of Devotion and Respect :  Hoisting a flag is an act of devotion, showing respect to our god housed within the temple. Marker of a Sacred Space : From a distance, the flag atop a temple helps people identify it as a sacred space. It acts as a guide for devotees and pilgrims. Spiritual Protection : The flag is believed to protect the temple and the surrounding area from negative energies. Representation of Everlasting Worship : A flag fluttering in the wind signifies that worship is ongoing, even when the temple doors are closed. Cultural Identity and Tradition : The colours, symbols and materials used often reflect the culture, beliefs and heritage of the region and religion. In Jainism ,  the Jain flag is usually  Five...

A beautiful message for life with simple example.   Just as nothing can destroy iron except its own rust, no one can truly destroy a person, except their own mindset. Iron is a strong metal. Yet when it suffers from rust, that rust- its own weakness- slowly eats it away. In the same way, our strength and potential remain intact unless our negative thoughts begin to erode them. Your mindset is like that rust. It’s not external circumstances, but internal patterns of thinking that can break you down.  A negative mindset drags you down  A positive mindset lifts you up.   The quality of your thoughts deeply influences your personality and how you engage with the world. So, stay mindful of your inner environment, the thoughts you feed, the mental habits you nurture and the people and energies you surround yourself with. That’s what ultimately shapes and protects who you are. So now onwards be careful about what you think, focus on purifying your thoughts because,  A ...

     "Small hearts with big dreams”           A tag line for all childrens...                Children truly are God’s gift. Every child is a born creator. Every child is unique. Every child carries a world of wonder within. Every child learns in their own beautiful way. Every child holds unlimited possibilities. Every child blooms when nurtured with love. Their innocence, kindness, flexibility, curiosity and expectations, teaches us something precious. Sometimes knowing less about the world is actually a blessings. They live in their own little universe, dreaming fearlessly and walking confidently towards their goals. Today’s children are firm, focused and determined and there is so much we, as adults, can learn from them. A Child teaches us to love unconditionally. A child reminds us to find joy in the smallest moments. A child teaches us the beauty of pure innocence. A child shows us how to live ...

It’s Okay to Start Small – progress over perfection. We’ve all seen baby steps tiny , unsteady , yet full of determination . Those small steps eventually turn into confident footsteps. Life works the same way.  The journey from baby steps to confident strides carries a beautiful message from God — that growth takes time, effort, and faith. Just as a child learns to walk one small step at a time, we too can achieve success by moving forward patiently. Every hurdle teaches us balance and every step brings us closer to our dreams. No matter how big your dream, event or goal may be, every journey begins with small efforts. Don’t wait for perfection to start, just begin. Each little step brings progress and that progress will ultimately lead you to your destination. Word ' Start'  is the key here.   The journey of every big achiever reminds us that greatness begins with small steps. No one reaches the top overnight, each milestone is built on continuity, patience and progress....