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KIDS : Our reflection, Our Responsibility


Friends, can we spare sometime and go back to our childhood.... 

The fun days we had, stress-free environment we lived, friend circle we had, level of communication we had with our family, games we used to play with our parents and lot many things..... 



We did not have so many exposures but yes, the freedom (stress-free) to play and study.

We did not have many activities around but still exposure with no competition around. 

We did not have too many tuitions but still had professionals and skilled people around. 

Feel so nice to think of all this. 

BUT Are we as parents really providing the same environment to our kids?

They are always loaded with too much of competition, too many challenges, too many exams and evaluations, too many tuitions. It's an environment full of stress. Its good sometimes to have competition but everything in excess is harmful. Friends it's taking away their childhood.

CHILDHOOD COMES ONLY ONCE LET's NOT SPOIL IT... LET THEM ENJOY AND EXPLOTE AT THEIR OWN PACE.

Today's child can very well handle competition and challenges so do not worry much about it. They are firm, they are brilliant. They learn and implement things faster than us. While education is important it should not come at the cost of happiness and mental well-being.

The formula is very simple. What we have is what we give to the world. Today's generation has stress, competition, challenges so what we will get in reverse would be the same. And that situation would be difficult to handle in future. To ensure that we do not spoil our kid's childhood, give them stress-free environment to live and make our future a better time to live with them, lets this article be an eye-opener.

SO 

Let's work towards nurturing and teaching our child values of life, kindness, honesty, love, communicate with them, spend quality time with them, keep them engaged in good networks and help them be a good human being. Rather than focusing too much on all kinds of extra-curriculam activities which may not be of any interest to them. Let's respect their view, their interest, give a pause and understand them. We are blessed with technology, let's use it to its fullest and induce good values in our child in the way they love to learn. Let's praise them for what they are and teach them to praise others too. Our education system also needs to focus more on this aspect but let's do what we as parents can do at-least. 

Friends,

Kids are reflection of our values, they are reflection of gods pure love and beauty of life. By loving and guiding them we honour gods most beautiful creation. 

Give a pause and think over it..


By - Rupal

Comments

  1. Very nice article . If kids are stressed today , they will also give us stress in future … is a very eye opener thought . 👍

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  2. Very true Rupal…. What you have written is an eye- opener for all of us! Well- expressed & written!

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  3. Yesss..kids learn faster than US. They should take failures also equally. We should only guide them not force them..

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  4. Very true. Mother tongue is very important

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  5. Very nicely presented. Parents life style becomes a great learnings and induces great values to kids. Currently lifestyle is very hectic and stressful so these aspects are very important to focus by all parents.

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