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Rain is natural.
Are we able to stop it?
Are we able to avoid going in rain?
Answer is NO,
Rather we CARRY AN UMBRELLA & Enjoy the moment.
Same way, If unpredictable response comes from our loved-ones in life, what should we do?
TAKE AN UMBRELLA APPROACH.
Let me explain in brief:
Rain is natural but we invented umbrella ☔ to protect ourselves from it. This simple act conveys deep truth. It tells us that at times we face situations which we can't change, in that case we need to adapt to people as we do with seasons.
Unpredictable behavior or harsh words from loved ones are like rain. We expect warmth or support, but instead we might feel criticism or indifference.
We can not change nature of our closed ones but we can surely adapt to them in a way that protects our peace and brings joy in the moment as we do while walking with umbrella in the rain.
Adaptability here doesn't mean giving up, ignoring or leaving the relationship. It's about being flexible, being wise at times, making a situation peaceful when we know about the things not in our control.
Many a times,
We expect appreciation but we receive criticism,
We expect support but we get ignorance,
We expect rewards but we receive silent at that moment.
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In such cases use "Umbrella like approach" to protect your emotional well-being getting wet (affected), instead of their words/actions impacting your spirit, just let it flow like raindrops falling from umbrella.
Now with calm mindset, stay steady and walk with grace and understanding in the situation rather than getting hurt or reacting.
Life, like weather, won't always be sunny. People won’t always respond the way we hope. But with the right mindset, our emotional umbrella, we can walk through the rain with smile along the way.
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After all, growth doesn’t only come from sunshine, it often comes from learning to dance in the rain OR carry an umbrella in the rain.In whatever approach you take,
the idea is to enjoy the moment.
Enjoy the rain friends... Stay Happy.
By - Rupal
Wow..superb , what a thought and comparison
ReplyDeleteVery positive and Umbrella like approach. Keep it up...
ReplyDeleteGood we should take an oath to not utter harsh words in any circumstances
ReplyDeleteThe idea is very impressive. After reading we get lot of inspiration.
ReplyDeleteLiked the way of positivity in any situation.
ReplyDeleteBeautifully explained & narrated the bitter but realistic approach to live life without getting affected and driven away.very well said Rupal .
ReplyDeleteVery well written.
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ReplyDeletePhenomenal explained it recount realistic technique it clearly explains " strike while the iron is hot '' nice seeing you progressing
ReplyDeleteNice concept. Same like Jainism.
ReplyDeleteVery true👍
ReplyDeleteVery nice article . Never thought we can learn from umbrella ! Very good progress ! There is more depth in your article now 👏🏻👍
ReplyDeleteVery nicely put up the connection of changing emotions and nature. Thank you Rupal.
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