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Silence and Speech: The Art of Choosing Wisely

Silence and Speech: The Art of Choosing Wisely

Silence and speech, two opposite expressions, yet equally powerful in their own space. 

One carries the weight of unspoken strength, while the other carries the force of expression. 

Knowing when to speak and when to keep silence is a delicate yet wise decision. This decision impacts majorly on  relationships, conversations, and even your own inner world.

The thin line between silence and speech is often invisible and deeply personal too.

It varies not just from person to person, but also from moment to moment. That’s why it becomes essential to pause, reflect, and choose, because what works in one situation might not work in another.

Sometimes, silence is louder than a thousand words. 

In moments when the other person is not ready to listen, words lose their meaning and impact. In such times, silence becomes a statement in itself. 

On the other hand, words, when timed right and spoken with intention, have the power to heal, inspire, and bring clarity. But misuse of words or their overuse can lead to confusion, conflict or regret in some cases.

Why Silence?

  • It helps you to observe more and react less.
  • It gives you time to think and than respond wisely.
  • It shows emotional maturity and inner strength.
  • It often communicates more than you intend, without saying anything at all.
  • When you choose silence you choose control over situation. It is considered one of the strong reaction, hard for many to implement.
  • Especially when one is dealing with kids, this is the best way to react in many cases. Often immediate reaction of hard words results in unexpected behaviour of child. 

When Speech?

  • When clarity is needed and misunderstanding is growing.
  • When silence might be misinterpreted as ignorance or indifference.
  • When your voice can protect, uplift, or guide.
  • Especially when you see your child in good mood or at night time, explain him to convey your messages. Your speech will have maximum impact when listener is in right mood. 


Silence is not weakness. It shows your strength. It can bring magical results in some cases. 

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Speech is also not just noise, 

it’s power when used with purpose.


Both are tools. Both can do magic if used in right way at right time. 

The key lies in mastering the art of choosing between the two.


By - Rupal

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