The Rupal Diaries

In my previous article, ( https://therupaldiaries.blogspot.com/2025/07/an-umbrella-mindset-feeling-calm-in.html ) I explored  an umbrella approach, a very practical yet simple approach which works for sure. Looking at response to this article I am sure each one of us are going to try it atleast once.

Rain is natural. Are we able to stop it?  Are we able to avoid going in rain?   Answer is NO ,   Rather we  CARRY AN UMBRELLA & Enjoy the moment .   Same way,  If unpredictable response comes from our loved-ones in life, what should we do? TAKE AN UMBRELLA APPROACH.   Let me explain in brief: Rain is natural but we invented umbrella ☔ to protect ourselves from it. This simple act conveys deep truth. It tells us that at times we face situations which we can't change, in that case we need to adapt to people as we do with seasons.  Unpredictable behavior or harsh words from loved ones are like rain. We expect warmth or support, but instead we might feel criticism or indifference.    We can not change nature of our closed ones but we can surely adapt to them in a way that protects our peace and brings joy in the moment as we do while walking with umbrella in the rain. Adaptability here doesn't mean giving up, ignoring or leaving the rela...

July 23rd is celebrated as Dolphin and Whale Day.  It is an initiative started in 1986 by the International Whaling Commission (IWC) .  This day honours these intelligent and sensitive marine beings who play a vital role in maintaining the balance of our ocean ecosystems.  Their decreasing numbers remind us of our responsibility toward nature. Why do we celebrate them? Because every creation of our Creator carries a message for us, lessons that guide us toward a more meaningful, compassionate life.  Our creator's creation is always with some positive insight to us. Let's pause and explore the life of these creatures highlighting their qualities.  

Are we really consious about the people with whom we connect in our life, when given a choice? Now a days, forming friendship or finding a life partner is instant. Social media and chatting makes it effortless for us to connect with countless people in short span of time. But how seriously we take these connections?  Our kids need to understand that  Quick chats and online exchanges can hardly reveal one's charater.    The reason is people with whom you connect has major impact on our life. Their mindset, their positivity can uplift / downlift you. They act like HUMAN MEDICINE, so choose friends wisely. Our life is majorly influenced by our surroundings (environment, people, thoughts etc.) each playing a vital role.  The concept of surrounding with people who has positive mindset, who are caring, loving and open-minded can impact on you, they act like human medicine. Lifiting us towards wellness and self-growth.  Most of the time we are conscious about the...

Emojis bringing human touch to digital world. Emojis are small digital icons used to express emotions, ideas, or objects in electronic messages. Emojis are now part of our digital culture . World Emoji Day is celebrated every year on July 17 to recognize the fun, creative and universal language of emojis.  The first emojis were created in Japan in the late 1990s.  Why July 17? The date July 17 was chosen because it is the date shown on the 📅 calendar emoji on most platforms. It was first celebrated in 2014, founded by Jeremy Burge, the creator of Emojipedia.  (Ref: internet) What emojis tell us: Emojis tell us power of small gesture in communication. Single expressive emoji say a lot that even words may not describe. Emojis act like universal language, it break language barriers and help people connect emotionally. It brings human touch to the digital world.  Emojis made our feelings easily expressive. They add tone and context to text making conversations...

Every celebration, every individual can give us a message if our pespective is to understand it.  July 14th each year is celebrated as World Chimpanzee Day, something that we were not even aware of.  This day recognizes the importance of chimpanzees and the need to protect them and their habitats.  At age of 26, without formal scientific training, Dr. Jane Goodall began observing wild chimpanzees in Gombe National Park. Her groundbreaking work revealed that chimpanzees use tools, have emotions, and possess distinct personalities, challenging previous scientific beliefs . (Ref: Internet) Chimpanzees posses many qualities which are appreciable and good to know: Importance of Social Bonds Chimpanzees live in tight-knit communities and spend a lot of time grooming each other, playing and resolving conflicts (without the need of voice). Strong relationships, empathy and cooperation are key to survival and happiness. Violance is not the only way to resolve conflicts....

GURU G - G uide U - U s through   R - R ight U - U nderstanding  गुरुर्ब्रह्मा गुरुर्विष्णुः गुरुर्देवो महेश्वरः। गुरुः साक्षात् परं ब्रह्म तस्मै श्रीगुरवे नमः॥ ( The Guru is  Brahma (the creator),  Vishnu (the preserver),  and  Shiva (the destroyer).  The Guru is the Supreme Brahman itself. I bow with reverence to that divine Guru. ) In different stages of life, different people act as guru: Teachers, Parents, Religious Gurus, Friends, our kids sometimes and even digital mentors can be considered modern gurus. A guru  holds great importance in shaping our life.   Why GURU Purnima celebrated? It is celebrated on the full moon day (Purnima) in the month of Ashadha (June–July) according to the Hindu Calendar. In Hindu tradition:   It commemorates the birth of Sage Vyasa, who compiled the Vedas and authored the Mahabharata.   In Buddhism:    It marks the day when Lord Buddha gave his first sermon at Sarnath.  In Jainism:...