"Wisdom begins with knowing what to say. Maturity lies in understanding whom to say it to. Intelligence reflects in how you say it. But true brilliance is revealed in knowing when silence speaks louder than words."
In my earlier writings, I’ve explored these aspects separately, but let’s now weave them into a single framework of communication.
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Reference Articles are:
- Silence and Speech: The Art of Choosing Wisely
- WORD and WORLD, a thin line between
- Word and world (Part2) : Parents vs. Child
and Many more...
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In today’s world, even children demonstrate striking levels of maturity. Hence our words play a pivotal role in building and nurturing relationships. This naturally raises four essential questions:
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What to say?
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Whom to say it to?
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How to say it?
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When to say it?
The answers unfold like a cycle of conscious communication:
Wisdom guides us to decide
WHAT to say.
Maturity helps us choose
WHOM to say it to.
Intelligence shapes
HOW to express it.
Brilliance teaches us
WHEN to say it( or not say it at all).
This doesn’t mean every conversation should be overly calculated. Rather, if we apply this cycle—especially in meaningful discussions with our loved ones or even in professional settings—we can reduce frustration, encourage attentive listening and avoid unnecessary delays in response.
Over time, this approach becomes natural and effortless, ultimately enriching our interactions.
It is particularly effective with children. Their days are often packed with school, tuition, extracurriculars and play. They seldom get unhurried moments for family conversations. Choosing the right what, whom, how, and most importantly, the when can make those limited conversations deeply meaningful.
So, the next time you approach an important discussion with your child—or anyone you value—pause for a moment. Think of this cycle. You may discover that your words carry more power and your silence even more.
Hope this short article will help us all. Enjoy your day.
By - Rupal
Yes rightly said and everyone should think of this
ReplyDeletePerfect 👌 one must use his/her wisdom / (Vivek) to start and end the conversation with totally fruitful way for both means both should be in win win condition and not have conflict of understanding or the interests.
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