The Rupal Diaries

In my previous article, ( https://therupaldiaries.blogspot.com/2025/07/an-umbrella-mindset-feeling-calm-in.html ) I explored  an umbrella approach, a very practical yet simple approach which works for sure. Looking at response to this article I am sure each one of us are going to try it atleast once.

Rain is natural. Are we able to stop it?  Are we able to avoid going in rain?   Answer is NO ,   Rather we  CARRY AN UMBRELLA & Enjoy the moment .   Same way,  If unpredictable response comes from our loved-ones in life, what should we do? TAKE AN UMBRELLA APPROACH.   Let me explain in brief: Rain is natural but we invented umbrella ☔ to protect ourselves from it. This simple act conveys deep truth. It tells us that at times we face situations which we can't change, in that case we need to adapt to people as we do with seasons.  Unpredictable behavior or harsh words from loved ones are like rain. We expect warmth or support, but instead we might feel criticism or indifference.    We can not change nature of our closed ones but we can surely adapt to them in a way that protects our peace and brings joy in the moment as we do while walking with umbrella in the rain. Adaptability here doesn't mean giving up, ignoring or leaving the rela...

July 23rd is celebrated as Dolphin and Whale Day.  It is an initiative started in 1986 by the International Whaling Commission (IWC) .  This day honours these intelligent and sensitive marine beings who play a vital role in maintaining the balance of our ocean ecosystems.  Their decreasing numbers remind us of our responsibility toward nature. Why do we celebrate them? Because every creation of our Creator carries a message for us, lessons that guide us toward a more meaningful, compassionate life.  Our creator's creation is always with some positive insight to us. Let's pause and explore the life of these creatures highlighting their qualities.  

Are we really consious about the people with whom we connect in our life, when given a choice? Now a days, forming friendship or finding a life partner is instant. Social media and chatting makes it effortless for us to connect with countless people in short span of time. But how seriously we take these connections?  Our kids need to understand that  Quick chats and online exchanges can hardly reveal one's charater.    The reason is people with whom you connect has major impact on our life. Their mindset, their positivity can uplift / downlift you. They act like HUMAN MEDICINE, so choose friends wisely. Our life is majorly influenced by our surroundings (environment, people, thoughts etc.) each playing a vital role.  The concept of surrounding with people who has positive mindset, who are caring, loving and open-minded can impact on you, they act like human medicine. Lifiting us towards wellness and self-growth.  Most of the time we are conscious about the...

Emojis bringing human touch to digital world. Emojis are small digital icons used to express emotions, ideas, or objects in electronic messages. Emojis are now part of our digital culture . World Emoji Day is celebrated every year on July 17 to recognize the fun, creative and universal language of emojis.  The first emojis were created in Japan in the late 1990s.  Why July 17? The date July 17 was chosen because it is the date shown on the 📅 calendar emoji on most platforms. It was first celebrated in 2014, founded by Jeremy Burge, the creator of Emojipedia.  (Ref: internet) What emojis tell us: Emojis tell us power of small gesture in communication. Single expressive emoji say a lot that even words may not describe. Emojis act like universal language, it break language barriers and help people connect emotionally. It brings human touch to the digital world.  Emojis made our feelings easily expressive. They add tone and context to text making conversations...

Every celebration, every individual can give us a message if our pespective is to understand it.  July 14th each year is celebrated as World Chimpanzee Day, something that we were not even aware of.  This day recognizes the importance of chimpanzees and the need to protect them and their habitats.  At age of 26, without formal scientific training, Dr. Jane Goodall began observing wild chimpanzees in Gombe National Park. Her groundbreaking work revealed that chimpanzees use tools, have emotions, and possess distinct personalities, challenging previous scientific beliefs . (Ref: Internet) Chimpanzees posses many qualities which are appreciable and good to know: Importance of Social Bonds Chimpanzees live in tight-knit communities and spend a lot of time grooming each other, playing and resolving conflicts (without the need of voice). Strong relationships, empathy and cooperation are key to survival and happiness. Violance is not the only way to resolve conflicts....

GURU G - G uide U - U s through   R - R ight U - U nderstanding  गुरुर्ब्रह्मा गुरुर्विष्णुः गुरुर्देवो महेश्वरः। गुरुः साक्षात् परं ब्रह्म तस्मै श्रीगुरवे नमः॥ ( The Guru is  Brahma (the creator),  Vishnu (the preserver),  and  Shiva (the destroyer).  The Guru is the Supreme Brahman itself. I bow with reverence to that divine Guru. ) In different stages of life, different people act as guru: Teachers, Parents, Religious Gurus, Friends, our kids sometimes and even digital mentors can be considered modern gurus. A guru  holds great importance in shaping our life.   Why GURU Purnima celebrated? It is celebrated on the full moon day (Purnima) in the month of Ashadha (June–July) according to the Hindu Calendar. In Hindu tradition:   It commemorates the birth of Sage Vyasa, who compiled the Vedas and authored the Mahabharata.   In Buddhism:    It marks the day when Lord Buddha gave his first sermon at Sarnath.  In Jainism:...

Today is the phase of learning, evolving, educating ourselves... In my book ' AI, the silent partner of our life ' also I emphasize that in the fast-changing world of AI/technology self-learning is no longer optional, its essential. Each one of us need to educate our self.  Education must go beyond schools and colleges, it should be a lifelong journey for all age groups if we wish to thrive in this era.   So here let's explore one of very powerful concept to accelerate our learning. Concept is  Multi-Sensory Learning This concept is based on using different learning modes i.e.  VISUAL,  AUDITORY & KINESTHETIC  ( Kinesthesia happens when the brain gets feedback from muscles and ligaments about how the body is moving. Dancing is a kinesthetic art form) simultaneously to enhance learning process and memory retention. These might involve activities that appeal to sight, sound, touch, movement, and even smell and taste. By engaging multiple senses, informati...

Silence and Speech: The Art of Choosing Wisely Silence and speech, two opposite expressions, yet equally powerful in their own space.  One carries the weight of unspoken strength, while the other carries the force of expression.  Knowing when to speak and when to keep silence is a delicate yet wise decision. This decision impacts majorly on  relationships, conversations, and even your own inner world. The thin line between silence and speech is often invisible and deeply personal too. It varies not just from person to person, but also from moment to moment. That’s why it becomes essential to pause, reflect, and choose,  because what works in one situation might not work in another. Sometimes, silence is louder than a thousand words.  In moments when the other person is not ready to listen, words lose their meaning and impact. In such times, silence becomes a statement in itself.  On the other hand, words, when timed right and spoken with intention, hav...

Wear the Glasses of Positivity Instead of saying “The sun has set,” try saying “The stars are shining.”  It’s the same moment, but with a completely different vibe. The words we use during our conversation, and the way we describe the situation, shape the environment around us. They influence not just how others perceive things, but also how we feel inside. Our language, our words, our tone, our emotions directly impacts our mental state. So let’s be mindful of the words we choose, especially when dealing with negative or frustrating moments. The situation might not change, but our response to it can make all the difference. Next time,  Your kids aren’t listening to you… OR Someone says something hurtful… OR  Your teacher scolds you… OR  Your close-ones says something you didn’t like… Pause. Take a breath. And ask yourself: Is there something to learn here?  Can I use this as a stepping stone to grow? Wear the glasses of positivity.   Try to look ...

Doctor, a health protector  and  Chartered accountant, a wealth protector   1st of July is celebrated as doctor as well as CA day as both are considered to be pillars of society who make our life better. Why doctor day: The Government of India designated July 1 as National Doctor's Day in 1991. This day marks the birth anniversary of renowned physician and the second Chief Minister of West Bengal, Dr. Bidhan Chandra Roy. Why CA day: This day marks the foundation of the Institute of Chartered Accountants of India (ICAI) in the year 1949, under an Act of Parliament known as The Chartered Accountants Act, 1949. In other respects also, Both require years of education, deep dedication, and lifelong learning. Both are pillars of society – one protects health, the other protects wealth. Both work under high pressure and hold great responsibility for others’ well-being. A doctor heals the body, a chartered accountant heals the balance sheet.  One gives us the strength to liv...